Chances are, you say it so many times a day you can’t even recall to whom or why. But saying thank you, and being really and truly grateful aren’t exactly the same thing. Expressing gratitude is an important part of maintaining a relationship. And if your momma is from anywhere south of the Mason-Dixon, then you’ve probably been schooled in the absolute necessity of writing a proper thank-you note.
Here are some more great ways to show gratitude that take just a little thought and minimal effort, and would make your mother proud!
Make an introduction.
No matter what line of work you’re in, the odds are pretty good you know some folks that could benefit from knowing each other. Some of the most successful people we know are serial connectors. We’re not sure if that’s a real thing, but introducing people is a powerful thing. In so few words, you’re inviting someone into your inner circle. You never never know what the results may be, and that’s part of the beauty of this very personal touch.
Send a handwritten letter.
Yes, it may be simpler to create an animated gif or a full-length feature film than to find the proper pen and paper, but the personal touch of a handwritten note or letter is still a pretty powerful thing. And go beyond just saying, “thanks.” Let them know how they helped or influenced you, your project, or the results of their kindness toward you.
Offer your expertise.
Everyone is really good at something. No one is really good at everything. And if you’re really listening, you’ll pick up on ways you can offer your particular skills or gifts to someone in gratitude. No, that doesn’t mean you have to help them pack boxes on moving day, but expertise is your unique currency. It’s valuable stuff!
Make a donation in their name.
Whether it’s animal shelters, social justice, land preservation, or the like, we all carry a torch for some particular cause that’s near and dear to us. A quick check on social media will reveal where their heart lies. Nearly every not-for-profit has an online opportunity to donate. You’re just a few clicks away from showing how much you appreciate them.
Pay it forward.
They may never know, but that’s not the point. Good deeds aren’t done for the thank you’s or the potential payback. Think about that the next time you’re presented with an opportunity to volunteer, lend a hand, or support someone in some way. Expanding the network of folks you’ve influenced always pays dividends.